How To Get Rid Of Your Loving Guy Friend

One of the biggest problems men have when dating women is the existence or appearance of the awful guy friend. This is a very difficult subject because as men no one knows men better than we do and we know for a fact that there is no such thing as a “guy friend”. Any guy who wants to be friends with your girlfriend has an agenda, he either wants to sleep with her now or keep her on the back burner so he can try to sleep with her later or he wants to use her as bait as her that she can present it to other women. This article is designed to give you some tips on how to get rid of your loved one’s friend.

Be the alpha male.

The last thing you want to do is start fighting with his male friend, women hate men like that. However, you can easily become an alpha man and win the mental war without ever having to fight a physical battle. You need to start ideally from day one, meeting number one, or as soon as possible if this guy in your life is currently beating the alpha male. Make eye contact with him, be brief and serious when talking to him, be friendly but not his friend. If your boyfriend is not around be as cool as possible to his friends. Never make plans to socialize with him. You want to let him know mentally that you are aware of his games and that it is not worth his time to hang around your territory.

Be nice to her girlfriends.

Women value their independence, and one of the first subconscious arguments they are going to make when considering removing their friend, is that they give up their independence and any sense of independent life without you you by doing so. You need to completely challenge this argument by fostering an independent life that allows her to completely dump her boozy friend and still feel in control. One of the best ways to do this is to be nice with her boyfriends and nurture those relationships. If you are nice with her girlfriends, it will pay off like no other.

Because the women out there are talking about you her boyfriends will always support you even if there is an argument. You want to foster activities where she can have fun with her girlfriends independently but avoid things like girls nights out at the bars where she’ll be headstrong and you can’t control the appearance of the fabled guy friend. Offer to pay for her and her girlfriends to get their nails done one Sunday morning. I guarantee you that his friend will not be at the nail salon on Sunday morning and that you will come away smelling like a rose.

Remove it from that man’s social circle.

You want to make a conscious and covert effort to pull your love from the social circle to which the so-called guy friend belongs. If they all go out to the bars one Friday night try to learn about this ahead of time and plan a romantic dinner only the two of you are far away from where his guy friend will hang out. On things like her birthday take her out of town or encourage events with her friends who are just girls like them all going to the salon together. If the friend friend has any confidence at all that he is going to fight and try to pull your love back into his world you want to give her as many alternatives as possible so that she is not tempted to socialize with the guy friend.

If all else fails dump it.

The sad news is that some women are addicted to the attention they receive from other men and no matter how great their love is, they refuse to have friends. Time needs to come in your relationship fairly quickly (at the two-month mark in most cases) was if he doesn’t start showing signs of abstraction from his guy friends that you need to draw from. Trust me you don’t want a long-term relationship with a girl who has tons of guy friends and you certainly don’t want your wife hanging around other guys all the time. There are many things that men have to do when dating unbalanced women, we have to ask the women out, we have to pay for the dates, we have to for us to protect them; it is perfectly fair to insist that the friends hit the road after a reasonable amount of time. If you’ve tried all of the tactics above and she still has these guy friends waiting in the wings maybe it’s time to look for a better boyfriend.

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